implement chat messaging with event proposals

- Add functional chat with server communication and test responses
- Add ProposedEventCard component for confirm/reject actions
- Move Constants (Day, Month) from client to shared package
- Add dateHelpers utility for weekday calculations
- Extend Themes.tsx with button and text colors
- Update CLAUDE.md with current implementation status
- Add *.tsbuildinfo to .gitignore

packages/shared/src/utils/index.ts

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+export * from './dateHelpers';